It's so crazy to realize you're finally awake and that you've been sleeping for years. And here, I thought I was an "awakened" one.
That line to that song makes me humble. It makes me humble to think that I'm not even crawling, I'm LEARNING to crawl. But I am. And I'm being real. It's hard for me to even post that without thinking about what people might think that means and read into it. But it doesn't matter anymore. I'm living for HIM. Not men. I had begun to, very deeply and subconsciously, let what I thought people were thinking about me change what I thought about myself. More on that later.
These past fiveyears I've fallen to believe a doctrine that said I was better than everyone. I was better than the people in this church and that church, because I didn't cuss, drink, or have sex. I didn't watch bad movies, listen to non-Christian music, and therefore, I had more of God than anyone else, and I would continue to get "more" of God than anyone else. I started thinking my parents' Christianity was something I wanted to move ahead of, go deeper, if you will. Ha. Wow. Hindsight is 20/20. But more on that later.
While I believe it is true that the Lord desires a holy, unspotted temple and that we truly will be different, changed, and live rightly BEFORE GOD (not necessarily men) if we are saved, I do not believe that my behavior means that I have more of God, or even KNOW God. It's spelled out very plainly in the Bible with the pharisees, and other stories, including, well, Jesus flippin' over the tables.
When we are right before God, we will look right before men. But if we look right before men, it doesn't mean we are right before God. I'm sick of men determining salvation. I'm sick of feeling like I'm not good enough. That's what pride does. It ruins you to the point where you think you'll never be good enough. I'm sick of the skewed vision the charismatic movement has of the lost. We hold them to unbearable standards and never bother to lift a finger to ease the burden. (See scripture below)
Luke 11:37-54
Jesus Criticizes the Religious Leaders
37 As Jesus was speaking, one of the Pharisees invited him home for a meal. So he went in and took his place at the table.[l] 38 His host was amazed to see that he sat down to eat without first performing the hand-washing ceremony required by Jewish custom. 39 Then the Lord said to him, “You Pharisees are so careful to clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside you are filthy—full of greed and wickedness! 40 Fools! Didn’t God make the inside as well as the outside? 41 So clean the inside by giving gifts to the poor, and you will be clean all over.42 “What sorrow awaits you Pharisees! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens,[m] but you ignore justice and the love of God. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things.
43 “What sorrow awaits you Pharisees! For you love to sit in the seats of honor in the synagogues and receive respectful greetings as you walk in the marketplaces. 44 Yes, what sorrow awaits you! For you are like hidden graves in a field. People walk over them without knowing the corruption they are stepping on.”
45 “Teacher,” said an expert in religious law, “you have insulted us, too, in what you just said.”
46 “Yes,” said Jesus, “what sorrow also awaits you experts in religious law! For you crush people with unbearable religious demands, and you never lift a finger to ease the burden. 47 What sorrow awaits you! For you build monuments for the prophets your own ancestors killed long ago. 48 But in fact, you stand as witnesses who agree with what your ancestors did. They killed the prophets, and you join in their crime by building the monuments! 49 This is what God in his wisdom said about you:[n] ‘I will send prophets and apostles to them, but they will kill some and persecute the others.’
50 “As a result, this generation will be held responsible for the murder of all God’s prophets from the creation of the world— 51 from the murder of Abel to the murder of Zechariah, who was killed between the altar and the sanctuary. Yes, it will certainly be charged against this generation.
52 “What sorrow awaits you experts in religious law! For you remove the key to knowledge from the people. You don’t enter the Kingdom yourselves, and you prevent others from entering.”
53 As Jesus was leaving, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees became hostile and tried to provoke him with many questions. 54 They wanted to trap him into saying something they could use against him.
Why do we hold them to these standards? THEY DON'T HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE! They haven't even had an encounter with JESUS. They have never even met Him, and they certainly haven't made the decision to be a disciple of Christ. Why do we whisper to each about how horrible they are, and yet act like we have compassion to their faces? That is a travesty of the heart. We are actually keeping them from entering the Kingdom.
I for one fell into a trap for a year or so, not outwardly, but inwardly, of pride against other believers in the community. In my heart, I thought certain people were pharisees for professing to be Christians but listening to secular music. Yes it is so so important to keep what we hear pure because it effects our thoughts and our actions, but my gosh, I was judging their hearts!! I WAS THE PHARISEE in that story!! I still argue the point of listening to pure music, but I got sick of hearing people who I knew were hiding the fact that they listened to Lil Wayne and other horrible perverted sexually explicit music BASH those IN PUBLIC who listened to the likes of Taylor Swift and silly punk rock bands or coffee shoppe folk. I got sick. And then I got smart.
I'm choosing every day to live the life that I talk about. My husband and I both. We talk about helping people, we talk about loving people. So we're doing it. Every day. Sacrifice money, food, gas, "rest", for people. Why? Because people matter, no matter who they are, no matter what they're doing or where they've been. And I REFUSE to sit around and just talk about how people need to be loved and maybe one day I'll do it. I've been doing it, but now, I feel like I'm alive. I feel like I'm free. I feel like I'm out of slavery. Out of the fear of man, and into the glorious love of the Lord. There's no room for man pleasing.
My parents are such role models for me, in ever sense of the word. Hallelujah. THEY raised me in the Lord. They taught me about the Holy Spirit, they led me into the deep things of God, and set me on a path that I would get to know Him for myself- at a VERY VERY young age. They set the atmosphere in my home and made me LOVE Jesus, LOVE goodness, LOVE the things of the Lord, and to DESIRE to please God and not man, and led the way to the power of grace in my life. They taught me how to LOVE people. TRULY love them. To GET in people's dirt and that we're no better than anybody who has a stigma this world puts on them. They are some of the MOST humble people I know. They have the most sound personal doctrine out of anyone I know, and are REAL. My parents are REAL. Oh. and they were pastors of their own built-from-the-ground church for 10 years.
I saw them lead by example of LOVING people. I saw them sacrifice fancy technology, convenient appliances, nice cars, and their time and "precious" rest for people, to truly love them- and for us kids. I saw the Lord provide time after time after time for them. They were faithful and they knew how to love. HALLELUJAH. I thank the Lord for my parents, so much, and I am who I am today because of them and them listening to the Lord. They are the best parents I know. Haha. No really. I heard them pray for me. I heard their hearts. And I honestly am able to walk in the love that I have, the unexplainable love the Lord has given me for people that I truly cannot help, because of their example, I know how to use it.
*sigh*
How could I ever have thought, even as brief a period as it was, that I would want to "surpass" them and thought I could go "deeper"? How much deeper can you get than their humility, their love, their deep sacrifice for others? Oh Lord. Your Kingdom is so simple, its profound.
I'm so glad the Lord plucked me out just in time and reminded me what it's all about... even though I knew and still walked in that, the Lord revealed to me just how that prideful doctrine was influencing me. He had to root it out. I had no idea what had begin to develop in my insides. I thought I had escaped unscathed because I was able to get out. But He showed me, just how much my thinking had to change. About how the Lord sees me, about how I see myself. About the oppression I was under, constantly trying to please men. The slavery.
I had a dream on Dec. 31st about the underground railroad. I was being taken from slavery into the mansion of Susan B. Anthony. Yeah, crazy. (If you want to hear the full dream, message me or something, and I might tell you...) It has changed my life and the way I view the bondage that the kingdom of darkness is trying to entangle people in who think they're right with God. I'm still in my safe house, healing from my wounds, and changing my thinking from slave to daughter, changing my thinking from always afraid, to living in freedom and without fear. But now that I'm free, I can free others.
There's so much scripture and balance that can be discussed here, but I just flowed.